You are what you make your self to be
You were not born a loser and you were not born a winner. You are what you make your self to be. The mind i everything, what you think you become. If you think hapynes, you will be happy. If you think sadness, you will be sad.
It's a process of finding that within yourself. It's like finding your direction. It's about taking actions that are clear and loving It's really important to always keep others in mind. It's about acts of giving, not just adoration.